So you’re considering diving into stand-up comedy — exciting, terrifying, or maybe both? Probably both. Whatever you’re feeling, welcome to the club. Full disclosure, we own a comedy club and one of us is a seasoned (read: old) comic with tons of hours logged in various scenes.

Getting started in stand-up comedy doesn’t have to be scary and overwhelming, but it’s not as simple as grabbing a mic and instantly becoming hilarious. You have two solid paths to ease yourself into comedy: taking a stand-up comedy class or jumping straight into open mic nights. Whichever route you pick, you’re already taking the right first step.

Start by attending local comedy open mics as an audience member. Familiarize yourself with the comedy community and the venue dynamics. Watch closely and notice how comedians sign up, see how the host organizes the event, and pay attention to which jokes resonate (and which flop). Experiencing a few open mics firsthand helps remove uncertainty and might even ease some initial anxiety. Please do not call or email the club or booker to tell them how funny you are and to let them know you are coming to the mic. Just don’t. We receive numerous emails and calls, and the level of confidence consistently exceeds the quality of the actual performance. Just don’t get too big for your britches right off the bat, even if your friends tell you you’re the funniest person on earth.

Feeling confident? Strike up casual conversations with some of the comics. But remember, comedians often have their minds occupied. We’re worrying about our own upcoming sets or jokes. If they seem distracted or distant, it’s not personal. Comedians are generally friendly, just frequently preoccupied. Trust me, we’ve all been there. Some scenes are standoffish but no one has a problem with you signing up for a mic and giving it a shot, even if they aren’t warm and fuzzy. Also, greatness and diamonds are formed under pressure and when you are riddled with excruciating social and performance anxiety or something like that.

When you’re finally ready to step on stage, the key to becoming successful and welcomed is simple: be someone people actually want around. Consistently show up, even on nights when you’re not performing. Offer to help out — maybe set up chairs or assist the host. Always welcome new comics, just as others welcomed you. Avoid excessive alcohol consumption before performing; stay sharp and professional. Don’t be rude or negative — comedy circles are tight-knit, and reputations spread quickly. And importantly, don’t dash out the door immediately after your set. Stick around, support fellow comedians, and become an integral part of the community. I am not telling you to kiss ass or be phony, just be a good hang and help out if you see an opportunity.

Stand-up comedy can be tough but rewarding, especially when you’re sharing laughs with people you genuinely enjoy. Don’t psych yourself out, and just remember that everyone started somewhere.

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